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Don’t Be Easy, Make Him Work for You

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Dating, technology and finding love online isn’t easy and neither should you be if you’re looking to meet the love of your life on a dating app or website. __________________________________________________________

There are a lot of dos and don’ts when it comes to online dating. Playing hard to get is a gray area where some say it’s the secret to success and others warn against it. Research suggests this “mating strategy” may actually work.

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Don’t Be Easy, Let Him Work for You

The basics of attraction is fairly simple: When someone likes you, you like them. However, this principle works well when you first start chatting to someone, but you have to switch things up if you want a man to stay interested.

If you make it too easy for him, he may think you are desperate. Desperation is one trait that can make you seem less attractive faster than you can type, “I’m into you.” Of course, you also don’t want to come across as disinterested.

It’s a fine line to walk but with these three top tips, you’ll tiptoe your way right into his heart.

Show Your Playful Side

It’s called ‘playing’ hard to get for a reason. Keep it light-hearted. Send him a photo of yourself acting silly in a onesie, for example. It will show him your fun side and make him wish he was with you. Don’t overdo it though! The key to playing hard to get is “less is more.”

Put Yourself First

Show him your life doesn’t revolve around him. Men need to see that you don’t have to be available to them all of the time. This also means you shouldn’t answer their messages immediately. The last thing you want a guy to think is that you’re sitting by your phone waiting to hear from him 24/7.

Tease, Don’t Please

It’s great to flirt when you mingle online but don’t go too fast too soon. Keep it cheeky. The idea is to make his desire for you grow and with it, his anticipation to get physical with you. You want to create some carnal tension. It’s all about giving them just enough to keep them interested, but also continue wanting more.

Finally, Let Him Catch You

Your end-game is to meet the love of your life while online dating. At some point, you have to go from playing games to getting serious. If you continue the chase for too long, he may start to believe you’re really not interested. So, don’t wait too long before going from being elusive to his.

To recap:

  • Make it a fun game for you both.
  • Don’t let your life revolve around him.
  • Flirt and tease him but give him something to look forward to.

Here are some bonus tricks to playing hard to get on dating apps or websites for singles:

  • Don’t tell him too much about yourself.
  • Talk to more than one guy.
  • Seek his attention but ignore it when you get it.
  • Act like you’re not interested.

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